so called friend!!

Newbie Posts : 1 Points : 3 Join date : 2012-04-26

so, I had this friend..I met him a month after moving to kentuky. he was the only one to befriend me when I moved. I thought i was a great friend and was friendly. he expressed he had feelings for me I told him that I just want to stay friend for now that was back when we met. so i've been out here for about a year now. and a few weeks ago i grew some curiage and asked him if he would want to be in a relationship with me. he turned me down by saying I'm talking to 2 other chicks I don't have time for that. so I said whatever lets just be friends. a few days ago I had a really bad day at work alot of stress and verbal abuse from clients who expect me to be a ten year experienced hairstylist because I work at mastercuts or something...idk anyways, I tried to talk to him about what was going on and he sent me a message in the middle of it saying,"i just thinking you need a really good pounding from me"( sexual comment) i txt back and said i don't mean to be a bitch but im not in a sexual mood. so I've been sooo busy with work and school and everything going on that I barely have time to go to the bathroom let alone txt people especially while I'm working. he decided to flip out on me yesturday and started saying how I was being a bitch and very nasty and rude for saying what I said. so i said sorry if it sounded bad didnt me for it too. then he continued to go off on me for 6 hours about how he's such a great friend and how I'm such a shitty friend and I'm a hypocrite because, I act just like the people I hate, and im acting like a cunt and just continued to verbally bash me until 3 am. I tried telling him to just stop and that after his name calling I was to pissed to say anything and that id text him in a few days.. so he decides to call my phone 5 times and leave to very disgusting voicemails. then when i txt him back about how much of an asshole he's being and how much he's out of line for all this he decided to flip it and say how I wont stop with the conversation and I'm fucking crazy............ I love how someone who legally can not work because the government wont let him due to his mental disorders and the shear fact he is pychotic calls ME crazy!! I just want to be like yeah I forgot I'm so crazy the government wont let me work!!!!! but i bit my lip and said co9me get you movies im done being friends with you!! I love how I'm the crazy one!!....

Subject: Re: so called friend!! Thu Apr 26, 2012 8:06 pm

DAMN! What a fuckin douche, you should get a restraining order from him. You deserve so much better than that!

Subject: Re: so called friend!! Fri Apr 27, 2012 11:36 pm

well firs off people are who they are and he is a man and men are kinda crazy when it comes to there heart. maby the pounding was his way of opening up to your relationship . a sexual one . believe it or not u 2 were in a relationship. sounds to me your crazy to respond to him . Dont call him crazy cus you liked him up till now. Love it self can make a person nuts. give him a few days or weeks then talk to him about the whole thing without being a bitch cus u had a bad day.

if you were sleeping with a guy for a year and came home in a bad mood and he tryed to make you feel better by being sexual would you snap on him ????????? whats the differents?

oh ya any man arguing about anything cares . open your eyes . looks like the bitch in you dont want to be happy.

name calling and low balling is for children .

so do you want him or not sounds like u like playing head games.

Subject: Re: so called friend!! Sat Apr 28, 2012 12:50 am

fr3akinther00m wrote:: well firs off people are who they are and he is a man and men are kinda crazy when it comes to there heart. maby the pounding was his way of opening up to your relationship . a sexual one . believe it or not u 2 were in a relationship. sounds to me your crazy to respond to him . Dont call him crazy cus you liked him up till now. Love it self can make a person nuts. give him a few days or weeks then talk to him about the whole thing without being a bitch cus u had a bad day.

if you were sleeping with a guy for a year and came home in a bad mood and he tryed to make you feel better by being sexual would you snap on him ????????? whats the differents?

oh ya any man arguing about anything cares . open your eyes . looks like the bitch in you dont want to be happy.

name calling and low balling is for children .

so do you want him or not sounds like u like playing head games.

I disagree fr3akinther00m .

He is the bad guy here. Asking for a pounding seems pretty vulgar and disrespectful. He could have just said something like "I'm horny, can you help me out?" or something like that. At least something nicer. To me he seems to be the crazy one. Just from reading the 1st post I already don't like him. He sounds disrespectful. If I were you I would just push him out of my life. You're a great person and you don't need to be treated like that. Life is stressful enough. You've been through a lot and you don't deserve this shit.

Subject: Re: so called friend!! Sat Apr 28, 2012 1:19 am

your too nice
some times people dont need to hear comforting words.
the truth is hard to swallow but with out a friend honest enuf to say it someone can be stuck in a bad loop . and her letter say's it all . read it . im not being mean . sometimes its mean to not be for real .

for real this chick likes this guy. hes been dealing with it for a year. he has other things going on and she is upset he dont want to drop them for her . yet hes still there to bitch about her day to. he could have said it nicer but hay hes a man . sounds like she needs a girl friend to me . men are asses and they dont know how to ask if some penis will help your mood. To him sex is the only element missing from what she wants from him , he has been doing the rest for a year now. get a clue.

Newbie Posts : 6 Points : 6 Join date : 2012-04-28

BeautifulDisaster270 wrote:: ... someone who legally can not work because the government wont let him due to his mental disorders and the sheer fact he is pychotic ...

I'm kinda thinking that this would have red flagged him from the get-go, tbh...

Subject: Re: so called friend!! Sat Apr 28, 2012 8:50 pm

Right but she looked past it for a year . Just to not be alone . + she has been there and has made no other friends . between school and work she should have made a friend or 5 or 8 . So I would have to say She cant be the easiest person to be around or she would have more friends. Idk Im sure she is as head fucked as the rest of the world.

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